Married Mondays: A Reflection Dinner

I attended a conference this past week in New Orleans and the keynote speaker told a story about her and her husband at an upscale restaurant that they go to once a year. They get dressed up, make reservations and take a notebook with them to dinner.  They only go once a year as a treat and a time of reflection of their relationship.  They use this special time to make notes on what was beautiful and what worked as well as what did not work in order to do better in the year to come. I have heard of many couples doing a reflection over the past year but I really liked making the occasion a special tradition.  What other married traditions do you like?